My husband went to LA for a week to visit family and old friends. He’s managed a major recent move for the family, has watched our little girl day in and day out with few breaks – he needed a vacation away!
So I decided to take a staycation – I took the same week off of work to care of our little one and relax. What a delightful prospect!
But: OH MY GOD. YOU STAY AT HOME PARENTS ARE OUT OF YOUR MINDS.
How do you do it?? I barely catch my breath running around after the little one during “down” time (ha!), and then it’s time to do something else. I don’t feel I can ever catch up. And the house was totally ignored. How does my husband manage to keep our daughter clean, fed, well-rested, and engaged (well, ok, maybe a little lax on the clean), AND also keep the house as immaculate as he does?
I think our plants are on their last legs from lack of water.
Our backyard is brownish rather than greenish.
The trash and recycling trucks come by once a week, but they will have two week’s worth the next time because I forgot to put the bins out.
I was so stir crazy and lonely at the house earlier in the week that my daughter and I ended up doing wonderful day trips later in the week, but it was still a tremendous effort – the planning and packing, the mini tantrums while we were out, the fatigue – oh, the fatigue!
And SAHP do it all the time.
It’s Monday. I had a client meeting so early that I had to leave the house at 6:15 AM. And I was bright eyed and excited to go to WORK! Hooray for work!!